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Turning Inward: Reflecting on the Year and Embracing Possibility

As the year draws to a close, I always feel a quiet pull to turn inward. While the world seems to speed up with holidays, plans, and expectations, I instinctively slow down. This has become one of my most meaningful annual rhythms—a time to reflect, take stock, and gently imagine what might come next.

Each year, I create a new list—one I’ve been making annually since 2013—of 100 ideas for the year ahead. It’s not a rigid checklist or a set of resolutions meant to be conquered. Instead, each list is a snapshot in time: a collection of possibilities shaped by where I am in life that year. I keep these lists and return to them occasionally, not to measure success, but to reflect on how my interests, priorities, and sense of curiosity have evolved. Each year, my list returns to familiar themes: places I want to visit, books I hope to read, habits I’d like to build, skills I’m curious about, and experiences I want to try—even if I’m not sure how or when they’ll happen. Some things shift year to year, but these anchors remain.

At the end of the year, I look back at that year’s list and see what found its way into my life. Some items are neatly checked off. Others remain untouched. A few surprises appear—things I never could have planned, but that mattered deeply all the same. I’ve learned not to judge the list by how many boxes are checked. Instead, I notice patterns: what I was drawn to, what I made time for, and what quietly fell away. At the same time, it’s satisfying to see how many items I actually checked off—this year, I completed 60, a tangible reminder of the experiences and moments that curiosity and openness can bring.

As part of this reflection, I also pause to consider the one thing that really defines the year—the experience, lesson, or theme that stood out most over the past twelve months. It’s a way to see the shape and story of the year, capturing what truly mattered amidst both the ordinary and extraordinary moments.

Then comes the gentle sorting. Some unfinished ideas roll forward into the next year, still carrying energy and possibility. Others are released—not because they failed, but because they no longer fit. Letting go has become just as important as dreaming.

I started this practice in 2013, the year I moved to North Carolina. Everything felt new then—towns to explore, trails to walk, seasons to experience. The list became a way to say yes to curiosity and to life itself.

Over time, this practice has shaped my life in ways I couldn’t have predicted. By staying open to what landed on those lists, I’ve found myself swimming with manatees, volunteering alongside sea turtles and witnessing hatchlings make their way to the sea, ziplining despite a lifelong fear of heights, spending a summer in Italy, and traveling as far as Cambodia. I walked on Christo’s The Floating Piers in Italy—an especially meaningful experience after first learning about his work during my undergraduate studies. In Japan, I stood on an active volcano as smoke rose from the earth beneath my feet, and in Nagasaki, I spoke with a survivor of the atomic bombing at the Peace Memorial. I’ve also ridden the Bernina Express through the Swiss Alps, watching the landscape unfold slowly outside the train window. None of these moments came from rigid planning—they came from openness and a willingness to say yes when life offered something unexpected.

Nagasaki bombing survivor. Nagasaki, Japan

A few years ago, another idea found its way into this tradition. I read an article by a young man named Kevin who realized his life had become too narrow, too focused on routine. He created a simple rule for himself: every other month, he and his son would go on an adventure together—something out of the ordinary, something that invited joy. He called it Kevin’s Rule. I loved the simplicity of it. No pressure. No perfection. Just a commitment to experience more life. So I adopted it too, adding a small chart at the end of my list to plan and reflect on these intentional adventures throughout the year. Sometimes they’re big. Sometimes they’re incredibly simple. But they always remind me that joy rarely arrives by accident; it shows up when we make room for it.

Another idea I adopted came from reading about the practice of adding one new habit each quarter. I loved the gentleness of this approach—no overhauls, no all-at-once transformations. I started this about a year ago, and it’s been surprisingly powerful. By focusing on small, intentional changes, I’ve been able to add healthier habits into my life, like morning breathwork and getting early sunlight at the start of the day. When habits are added slowly and thoughtfully, they tend to stay.

Out of this reflection naturally comes direction. During this inward season, I also spend time setting goals for the year ahead—but they grow out of listening, not pressure. I try to keep them realistic and achievable, shaped by what the past year has taught me. I break ideas into small action steps and loose timelines, not as demands, but as gentle guideposts. This part of the process energizes me and helps me move forward with clarity rather than urgency.

Winter, for me, has always been a season for this kind of work. A time to turn inward, to recharge, and to reflect on what’s been—and to reimagine what could be. It’s not about doing more. It’s about paying attention, honoring what matters, and moving forward with intention when the time is right. And when I emerge from this quiet season, I carry with me a sense of clarity and possibility, ready to step into the new year with openness, curiosity, and purpose.

– Kari

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Saying Yes to the Things That Scare Us

Some moments in life arrive quietly — a story we hear, a sentence that lingers, a spark that nudges us toward something braver. For me, that spark came while driving to my next stop on this journey, listening to a podcast featuring Shonda Rhimes — the brilliant creator of Grey’s Anatomy. She shared how, even after all her success, she realized she had been living small. She often said no to opportunities — interviews, speaking engagements, events — because she was shy and preferred to stay home.

Then she made a decision that changed everything: for one year, she would say yes to the things that scared her. Yes to showing up. Yes to being seen. Yes to growth. That commitment not only transformed her life but also inspired her to write her book Year of Yes. By the end of that year, she had become a different person — more confident, more open, more alive.

Listening to her story, I felt such a connection. In many ways, this new chapter in my life is my own version of saying yes. It was scary to sell nearly everything I owned, leave behind what was familiar, and begin life as a nomad — traveling full time and not knowing exactly what each next stop will bring. But it was something I had dreamed about for years.

And honestly, saying yes to the things that scare me isn’t new. I’ve carried a fear of heights for as long as I can remember — the kind that makes my stomach drop on even a third-floor balcony. Then one year, my son gave me a journal-style book all about feeling the fear and doing it anyway. It was the push I needed.

Slowly, I started choosing courage on purpose.
I went ziplining over a river in the mountains — absolutely terrifying, yet somehow exhilarating.
I drove over the “scariest bridge in America” with knuckles so tight I’m amazed the steering wheel survived.
And in Japan, I inched across a shaky rope bridge I nearly talked myself out of.

None of those moments erased my fear of heights. But each one reminded me that I’m stronger than the voice that says don’t.

I think many of us go through life doing what we’re supposed to do — checking off the boxes, following routines, and putting off the things our hearts quietly long for. We dream of adventure, creativity, or change, but fear whispers all the reasons why we shouldn’t take the leap.

For me, this journey is about courage and trust — saying yes to the unknown, yes to new places, and yes to becoming who I’m meant to be. Every time I choose to step forward instead of step back, I discover a little more freedom.

And maybe that’s the quiet beauty of saying yes: we don’t have to become fearless — we just have to become willing.

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Catching Up in Acworth, GA — and Remembering a Summer in Italy

I recently visited Acworth, Georgia—a charming lakeside town tucked into the foothills of the North Georgia mountains. Known as “The Lake City,” Acworth sits along the banks of Lake Acworth and Lake Allatoona, with quiet water views, a historic downtown, and that unmistakable Southern warmth that makes you want to slow down and stay a while.

But my visit to Acworth wasn’t just about exploring a new place. It was about reconnecting with a friend I met years ago, in one of my favorite places in the world: Italy.

Several years ago, I spent a summer living alone in Vicenza. I didn’t know a single person when I arrived—not in the city, and not in Italy at all. The only connection I had was my work as a DODEA teacher, which allowed me base access and the chance to join excursions organized for the military community. I spent my days wandering cobblestone streets, hopping on trains to nearby cities, and studying in the base library as I finished postgraduate coursework. I had been learning Italian and tried to practice whenever I could, though many locals would kindly reply in English.

One afternoon, while out in town, I met Gail—an American whose husband was working on the base. We became instant friends, one of those rare people you click with immediately, as if you’ve known them for years. From that moment on, the summer blossomed into a series of unforgettable adventures.

We went to wine tastings tucked into hillside vineyards, lingered over meals in tiny restaurants hidden down narrow streets, and explored festivals bursting with color and music. Her husband often joined us, and the three of us shared some of the funniest and most memorable moments of my time in Italy.

There was the day we drove up the mountain to Asiago—yes, where the cheese comes from—twisting through those dramatic hair-pin turns that somehow felt equal parts exhilarating and slightly terrifying. And then there was the legendary “goat trail” incident, when the GPS insisted that a narrow path through an orchard was, in fact, the correct route to a winery. We laughed the whole way, convinced we were about to end up in the middle of someone’s field, but also fully committed to the adventure.

Those months in Italy were a gift—full of curiosity, connection, and the kind of friendship that stays with you long after the plane ride home.

Which is why seeing Gail again in Acworth felt so special. We slipped right back into that easy rhythm, sharing memories, catching up on life, and enjoying the simple joy of spending time together. Acworth made the perfect backdrop for it—peaceful lakes, mountain-framed views, and a welcoming town that encourages you to pause, breathe, and appreciate the people who matter.

Travel has taken me many places, but some of the most meaningful moments are the ones that reconnect me with the friendships formed along the way. My visit to Acworth was one of those moments—a sweet reminder that distance and time mean very little when a friendship is built on shared adventure, laughter, and the kind of connection you don’t stumble upon often.

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Sun City Center, Florida Adventures

This week has carried me to Sun City Center, a quiet Florida town that’s turned out to be the perfect setting for my second pet-sitting adventure. The rhythm here is slow and easy—golf carts humming down the streets, neighbors waving from driveways, and mornings that seem to invite you to linger a little longer. The two pups I’m caring for are gentle and content, which has given me plenty of space to wander and explore the coastlines nearby.

One of my first beach days was at Siesta Key, where the sand is so white and soft it feels like walking through sifted flour. It’s the kind of place that urges you to pause—where the horizon stretches wide and the whole day seems to expand around you.

Turtle Beach offered a quieter contrast, with darker, grainier sand and a peacefulness that feels made for slow thinking and unhurried walks.

One of the moments that stayed with me the most happened at the Apollo Beach Manatee Viewing Center. I spotted a mother manatee gliding alongside her baby, only a few months old. Manatees have always tugged at my heart—Amy and I swam with them years ago in Crystal River—and seeing them again, even briefly, brought that same sense of awe rushing back.

Anna Maria Island has been another sweet surprise. I spent a morning at Manatee Beach in Holmes Beach, where the shoreline stretches wide, the waves roll in gently, and the free island trolley passes by with a kind of old-Florida charm. It’s one of those places that makes you want to stay until the sun begins to sink.

Later, I wandered over to Historic Bridge Street and the old pier in Bradenton Beach. Once part of the original 1920s wooden bridge that connected the island to the mainland, the pier now feels like a little pocket of history—fishermen casting lines, pelicans drifting close, families strolling between small shops and cafes. There’s something nostalgic there, even on your first visit.

After visiting the beaches and wandering the pier, I even found time to take a dip in the neighborhood pool—a surprisingly warm and refreshing treat at the end of November. It felt like a little secret slice of summer tucked into the fall, a quiet moment to linger in the sun and water before heading back to the pups.

Even though my time here is short, this corner of Florida has offered more than I expected—quiet beaches, gentle wildlife, easy mornings, and places that carry a kind of timeless charm. Sun City Center has been a calming home base between beach days, pool swims, and dog cuddles, a reminder that the best adventures don’t always have to be big or far away.

– Kari

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St. Augustine: A Walk Through History

St. Augustine is one of those rare places where history isn’t something you read about—it’s something you walk through. Cobblestone paths, salt-touched air, centuries-old stone walls… the entire city feels like a story unfolding around you. As the oldest continuously settled city in the United States, it holds a richness that’s hard to capture in just one visit—which is probably why I’m already planning a return.

Founded in 1565 by Pedro Menéndez de Avilés, St. Augustine sits between the San Sebastian River and the Matanzas River on a slender peninsula, just inland from the Atlantic. The Spanish influence is everywhere—tile roofs, courtyards, wrought iron balconies, and thick coquina buildings that have stood through sieges, fires, and eras of change.

I began my visit at the Old City Gate, where the streets behind it open into a charming network of historic shops, galleries, and preserved homes. Some of the walkways are still brick or cobblestone, and the mix of textures—weathered wood, stone, iron—creates a feeling that’s less like sightseeing and more like gently stepping into another time.

Tucked along St. George Street near the City Gate sits the Oldest Wooden School House, a charming reminder of early colonial life. Built by 1716, it’s one of the earliest wooden structures in the city and offers a glimpse into what school life was like for children in the early 1700s. Visitors can tour the little property and imagine a day in the life of students centuries ago.

Not far from the gate stands the Cathedral Basilica of St. Augustine, and it ended up being one of the highlights of my short visit. Sitting just off the Plaza de la Constitución, it’s the oldest Catholic parish in the United States, with roots reaching back to the city’s founding. When Pedro Menéndez landed in 1565, a priest traveling with him—Padre López de Mendoza Grajales—presented him with a cross. Menéndez kissed the base, the Spanish flag, and claimed the land for both Spain and the Church. The first Catholic Mass in the continental U.S. was celebrated that day.

The cathedral as it stands now was completed in 1797, and parts of the original coquina walls still remain. Inside, the blend of history and artistry is stunning:

  • Murals by Hugo Ohlms, installed in the 1960s, sweep across ceilings and walls.
  • Stained glass windows depict scenes from the lives of Saint Augustine and his mother, Saint Monica.
  • Hand-carved sculptures of Jesus, Saint Augustine, and Saint Peter frame the altar—where Jesus is shown in His resurrection, rather than His crucifixion.

It’s a place that feels both ancient and deeply alive.

From there, I wandered toward the Castillo de San Marcos, the massive 17th-century Spanish fort that still watches over the water. Built between 1672 and 1695, it’s the oldest masonry fort in the United States. Standing on its grounds, with the Matanzas River shimmering nearby, it’s impossible not to feel the layers of stories—pirates, soldiers, explorers, and ordinary people who lived their lives within sight of those walls.

Though I didn’t have time to visit on this trip, I also want to see the Fountain of Youth Archaeological Park, tied to the legend of Ponce de León’s 1513 landing. Knowing I was that close to the site of his expedition makes me even more eager to return and explore it properly.

Walking along the waterfront and wandering through the historic district, I realized how easily this city settles into you—quietly, but unmistakably. The tucked-away shops, the old stonework, the sound of church bells, the mix of Spanish and coastal southern charm—it all leaves an impression that lingers.

My visit was short, and there’s still so much I want to see. St. Augustine deserves time—time to wander, time to listen, time to let the centuries speak.

I’ll definitely be back. Some places simply ask you to return, and this is one of them.

– Kari